Exercising Is a Lot Like Having Sex

A few days ago, after my Physical Torturer said that it was safe to add strength exercises to my workout routine, I spent quite some time explaining to someone (who asked to borrow my completed plan) why what I do might not work for him. I might’ve also suggested (in a mildly stern manner) that a huge part of getting in shape and staying there is doing one’s own work towards accomplishing what one desires.

You see, my Wicked Luvs, I think exercising is a lot like having sex: if we aren’t getting what we need and want out of it—and feeling pleasantly exhausted after we’re done—it’s quite possible that we aren’t doing it right. And to do it right, we must experiment and practice… experiment and practice… experiment and practice… until we find what works for mind and body.

And this is assuming that the one doing the deed is lucky enough to possess a healthy body. When variables such as injury and illness are thrown into the mix, the whole thing gets much more complicated. I, for instance, have to consider hip and shoulder injuries, a moody back, untrustworthy feet, nerve pain, asthma, a crappy stomach… By the time I’m done compensating for all the madness, my Hip Thrusts might look alien when compared to someone else’s moves.

I’ve listed the exercises (see below) I will be working with during the next months, including my forever physical and occupational therapy stretches and workouts (for my shoulder and back). I exercise for 45-90 minutes, for 5 consecutive days, rest on day 6, and then repeat… In the last few years, I’ve lost many exercises—I can no longer do things like pull-ups, push-ups, dips, mountain climbers… and last year, when my balance began to sucketh very mucho, I lost the ability to do lunges.

But like I’ve said to my big brother and to a few friends who must exercise or else, there is always something we can do. If impact is trouble, try water aerobics; if standing is too hard, go for the chair exercises; if motivation keeps you from getting started, find a buddy to work with (face-to-face or online)… If like in my case, pain is an issue, get close and personal with your flesh and bones—experiment until you find something your body can do in reasonable comfort, once you find it, make it part of your daily living.

If you need a friend (or 13+ Luvs) to keep you honest and to help you focus your intent, then go ahead and share your plan with them… which is what I’m doing right now *cough*: I want to lose 15.5 of my 143.5 pounds of total hotness. That much sexiness could be a danger to us all. 😀

I know that exercising 45-90 minutes a day might look like a lot to many people. And it probably is. But when the alternative is losing mobility or saying goodbye to the endorphin rush I get from working out, then I find a way to turn “a lot” into just right for me.

Calisthenics
Squats
Pliés
Monkey F*ckers
Crunches
Dirty Dogs
Donkey Kicks (in slow motion)
Hip Thrusts
Bridges (with progressions)
Hello Dollies
Flutter Kicks

Shoulder
Passive Internal Rotations
Passive External Rotations
Standing Rows
External Rotations with Arm Abducted 90°
Internal Rotations
External Rotations
Bicep Curls (with resistance bands)

Back
Hamstring Stretch (bilateral… with scarf)
Knee to Chest (bilateral… with scarf)
Single Knee to Chest (with scarf)
Single Leg Hamstring Stretch (with scarf)
Hip Extensions (similar to donkey kicks, but holding the position without kicking)
On Elbows (prone… and breathe in the sky)
Upper and Mid Back Extensors

Exercise Schedule
Wed, Jan 6th – rest
Thu, Jan 7th – calisthenics, back, shoulders
Fri, Jan 8th – walk or dance
Sat, Jan 9th – calisthenics, back, shoulders
Sun, Jan 10th – walk or dance
Mon, Jan 11th – calisthenics, back, shoulders
Tue, Jan 12th – rest
Wed, Jan 13th – walk or dance
And again…

Note: to be safe, it is wise to speak to a doctor before starting a new exercise regimen (especially if there is injury or illness to consider). The listed calisthenics are mostly exercises modified out of the Marine Corps Daily Sixteen Program (you can read about the exercises HERE; if you have trouble with the direct PDF, please google “Marine Corps Daily 16”). Stretching and conditioning exercises, similar to the ones I do, can be found on OrthoInfo, under “Parts of the Body”.

Magaly Jan 2016My deliciously wild curls temporarily tamed…
in order to get a haircut, a bit of color and some highlights. 😉

Finger-Feeding Souls

Music does wonderful things for the soul; and when a visual storyline dances to the right tune, the combination turns the experience into pure magic. This is one of the reasons why I delight so much in watching my Piano Man on stage—I already know his face, his hands, his heart… but every time I see him as part of an orchestra (at the piano or conducting), I get to know him anew.

I love to watch him while he practices for a new show (especially when he doesn’t know my eyes are on him). There is something warm and alive about the cadence shaping his face, ruling his shoulders, flexing his arms, stretching his fingers… just the right way.

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I’ve gone to see my Piano Man perform several times these last few weeks, twice at Radio City Music Hall. First while he was at the keyboard, and then when he conducted. I was glad to have already seen this year’s show; for if I hadn’t, I would have missed most of the dancing. You see, my Wicked Luvs, since the orchestra spends almost the entire show in the pit, I found myself staring over my shoulder, eyes glued to a screen that showed the conductor.

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I watched his body—hands, arms, head and face—speak to woodwinds, brass, percussion and strings. “Be one with self and all,” his flesh and bones said. “Be guider of steps, kisser of ears, filler of hearts.” And they were… and he was.

like the sun on blooms,
with his music, my lover
finger-feeding souls

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